I have such a love/hate relationships with screens, and maybe you do as well. Sharing some thoughts about it today in partnering with a new device to help us monitor and set limits called Circle with Disney. Here are some things I’m thinking about…
Screens can be an amazing way to connect, learn, and entertain ourselves and our families (what did we do at the post office before them?). On the other hand, all the unknowns about how it’s affecting us, especially our children, is a little overwhelming. Also, to be honest, screens are a major source of mom-guilt for me. Lots of ‘shoulds’ to myself about when and how they’re being used.
A few things I’m thinking about:
Keep expectations low. I like to mostly give screen time as a reward, so I keep the expectations for screen time really low. Then, when I really need or want to give it out, they’re pleasantly surprised and excited. The problem with this system is there’s a lot of complaining on a regular basis about why they don’t get much pre-set screen time at all (and lots of comparing).
Hand held devices over tv. Is this better or worse? Our kids are using screens more than ever, especially hand held devices. And children under 18 represent 1 in 3 Internet users worldwide.
The Goldilocks Approach.This new NPR article talks about what we know right now about screen time. It’s a great overview on the current research. I like what they say about the “Goldilocks approach of not too much, not too little”. In the end, social media and the internet are an important part of our society and economy, no matter how we feel about it. I want to be sure my children are well educated in how to use the internet, social media, and screen time effectively and responsibly.
When Circle with Disney reached out to me, I was so curious about their product. I’m excited about it and think it could be a great tool for you too. Here’s what you need to know:
Circle with Disney is a little device (the little white box on the shelf here) that pairs wirelessly with the internet in your home to help you manage screen time. It works across all internet-based devices like smart phones, iPads, computer/internet browsing, streaming tv, playstation and other gaming systems. So, pretty much any screen your family is on, it can monitor. Here’s what it does:
Filtering. You can set filters depending on the age of the family member to be sure they’re only seeing what’s appropriate for them. These filters come defaulted with settings designed for that age group, but can be easily and quickly customized.
Time Limits. You can set how long you want children to be on their device, or even specific games and apps. Then, the device gives them a notification that their time it up.
Bedtimes. You can set a specific bedtime for the devices. Great for teenagers who might be on their phones in bed at night or adults (totally want to do this for myself!)
I’ve been really loving the features of this product, and feeling like it could really help us all have a healthier relationship with technology in our home.
What tips do you have to manage screen time in your home?
Thanks to Circle with Disney for sponsoring this post.
stuff right here! Good luck for the next!
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I agree, we’re all addicted nowadays. It’s so hard to really establish a healthy relationship because with us bloggers, social media is mixed up in work! I think you’re doing a great job with your thoughts and expectations for the kids, though! 🙂
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